Episode 5 — Season 2 Premiere: Presence, the Quiet Revolution

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Sharoll Fernandez S: Presence is the quiet
revolution that ends the endless race.

Have you ever felt like you're
always running—but never arriving?

Like every time you push back
against something unjust, there's

just more to push against?

I used to think that resistance
was the only path to freedom.

That the way out of harm
was always to push harder.

But then, something shifted.

I started to wonder: what if the
answer isn’t just in saying no

louder… but in living yes more fully?

Let’s take a step back.

I’m Aymara.

My people have been
resisting for centuries.

Colonization, racism,
patriarchy—none of this is new.

We’re taught, especially as women
of color, to keep resisting.

And that’s important.

But I noticed something: when all
we do is resist, we start defining

ourselves by the thing we’re resisting.

Imagine a race where the other person
sets the track, the pace, even the

finish line—and all you do is chase
them, trying to win on their terms.

That’s what resistance alone can become.

You’re still playing their game.

Still looking at them.

Still reacting to them.

And I thought—wait.

What would happen if I
stopped running that race?

Hegel, a philosopher, once
said something interesting.

He talked about a relationship
between a master and a slave.

He said the master only has power
if the slave sees him as the master.

That both of them depend on each
other to even have those roles.

If the oppressed stop looking
to the oppressor to define them,

the whole system starts to shake.

That idea really hit me.

Because I realized… if I always define
myself as “oppressed,” then I’m letting

the oppressor be part of my identity.

And I don’t want that.

I want to define myself
by something deeper.

Something rooted.

Something mine.

That’s what I started calling “presence.”

Presence is knowing who you are without
needing to fight someone to prove it.

It’s showing up in the world
with your full self—even if the

world still holds injustice.

It’s not giving in.

It’s not giving up.

It’s shifting the center.

My presence comes from my ancestors.

People who farmed the land.

Who sang lullabies in Aymara.

Who fought quietly by surviving,
loving, and building even when

everything was against them.

They didn’t only resist—they lived.

And I carry that.

Presence is creative.

It’s when I paint not because I need to
argue, but because I want to offer beauty.

It’s when I write, not to prove
I exist, but to share what I see.

When I painted Aymara women in
sensual poses, I wasn’t pushing

back against stereotypes.

I was painting a new vision.

One where we just are—fully ourselves.

Whole.

Alive.

That’s the difference.

Toni Morrison once asked:
“What are you without racism?”

She flipped the script.

She didn’t just fight
oppression—she stepped outside it.

She said, “I’m not a victim.

I refuse to be one.”

That’s presence.

Frantz Fanon, who fought
colonialism, said something similar.

He said it’s not enough to
say “no” to the colonizer.

We have to say “yes” to something new.

We have to build a self, a world, a
way of being that doesn’t depend on

the people who tried to erase us.

And Hannah Arendt said rebellion can set
you free from something—but revolution

is when you build freedom for something.

That hit me like lightning.

Because resistance breaks chains,
but presence builds homes.

Presence plants gardens.

It sings lullabies.

It teaches kids who they
are, not just what hurt them.

I think of Domitila Barrios de
Chungara, a Bolivian miner’s

wife who became a powerful voice.

She resisted, yes.

But what made her powerful
was that she told her story.

She said: this is who we are.

These are our dreams.

That’s presence.

And here’s the thing.

Oppression doesn’t just live outside us.

It tries to crawl inside.

It makes us believe lies about ourselves.

That we’re not good enough.

That we’re always behind.

That we need to prove our worth.

That’s called internalized oppression.

And presence is the antidote.

Presence says: I know who I am.

I am worthy, brilliant, loving, powerful.

Not because someone in power said so.

Because I know it in my bones.

There’s even science to back this up.

In one study, women did worse on
a math test when reminded they

were women—because of stereotypes.

But when reminded they were students
at a top university, they did better.

It wasn’t their ability that
changed—it was how they saw themselves.

That’s why presence matters.

And presence is never
just about one person.

When I stand in my truth, I create
space for others to do the same.

It’s like lighting a
candle—one flame becomes many.

Presence doesn’t mean we don’t protest.

I still do.

I march.

I vote.

I speak out.

But I do it from a place of
grounded worth, not desperation.

I do it knowing the world
is already mine to shape.

And after we protest, we build.

We create art.

We host dinners.

We speak our languages.

We raise our children with dignity.

That’s revolution, too.

Presence is not about pretending
the system isn’t there.

It’s about refusing to
let it define your soul.

When I stopped seeing myself as a slave
looking at a master—and instead looked

out at the horizon—everything changed.

I wasn’t stuck in that old dance anymore.

I was free to imagine.

Presence is not a final answer.

It’s where I begin.

It’s a posture, a stance,
a soil to grow from.

And when we live from there, we’re already
free—no matter what the world says.

So maybe, just maybe, the next
step isn’t to yell louder.

Maybe it’s to stand still.

Breathe.

Remember.

Create.

And look each other in the eyes—not
to fight, but to recognize.

Welcome to the quiet revolution.

It’s already begun.

Sharoll Fernandez Siñani: Thank you
for journeying Inside the Heart Portal.

If these converging voices steered you,
follow, review and pass the echo on.

Until next time, keep shaping memory
into fearless presence and communal art.

Episode 5 — Season 2 Premiere: Presence, the Quiet Revolution
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